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Beating the Narcissist
Posted: Mon Apr 15, 2019 3:17 pm
by Akelta
For anyone who has dealt with a Narcessist or is dealing with a Narcessist. Eilana shared this with me this morning. It is so true. It is amazing to. The second you take the neutral stance the narcesssist going away. They don't know what to do, they can no longer maniulate you, so they usually go away. Its a great article.
http://soulmateinhell.blogspot.com/2015 ... n.html?m=1
Re: Beating the Narcessist
Posted: Mon Apr 15, 2019 6:10 pm
by Alys-RaccoonReadings
Yessss! Love Grey Rock!!!!!
There is a fantastic sub-Reddit about being raised by narcissists, and it is full of things like this!
Re: Beating the Narcessist
Posted: Mon Apr 15, 2019 10:11 pm
by Yekarah
Great article!
No players? No game for them -
Game Over.
Re: Beating the Narcessist
Posted: Tue Apr 16, 2019 11:44 am
by Obsidian Goddess
Once you get really good at the grey rock thing, it’s really funny to watch the reaction from the narcissist
Re: Beating the Narcessist
Posted: Fri Apr 03, 2020 9:38 pm
by Kiku
I can't believe I just found this, just what I needed. Thank you!
Re: Beating the Narcissist
Posted: Fri Apr 10, 2020 7:54 pm
by Ulala
I have two workplace bullies I’ve been dealing with and this was greatly helpful in dealing with them. Thank you for sharing!
Re: Beating the Narcissist
Posted: Sun Apr 12, 2020 11:25 pm
by SerenitySpells
So true, and the grey rock analogy is spot on, the other one is the poke face.
It has taken me over 40 years to perfect this with my narcissist mum but I have done it. I just let it all wash over me and do not play the game. In fact from a fun point of view, I go home afterwards and even my husband remarks on how well I handled that visit and it makes a nice change to see my mum squirm as she is no longer getting her way.