I got inspiration from reading Eilana's 21 day bonding ritual and wanted to share mine in hopes to inspire someone else to bond with their companion, and maybe spice it up. There are many different ways of bonding so I shall share some of mine. I have gotten to day 6 so far but will have to have a week long break because I happen to go to Turkey tomorrow... So, I was thinking of continuing bonding in Turkey but not follow the 21 bonding ritual but just practise my skills as I just got my exercise booklet that you get when you have Lord Uphir work on you (I wrote about that in a separate post). Then when I come back home I can continue the bonding ritual where I left off.
This is my very first time doing a bonding ritual as grande as this, (well, grande and grande) so it took me a while to learn some etiquettes. I am lucky to have King Z as my companion. He, who has patience.
King Z is a very gentle, warm and funny demon who likes all kinds of celebration and very spicy food
![Devil Flame :devilflame:](./images/smilies/demon19.gif)
He has a keen eye and is a wonderful protector. It was said in his scroll that he would gladly step in to protect me from negative energies, situations and people (lol I love the gladly part)
I waited his vessel for a month (I asked to change the vessel) and surprisingly kept hearing this loud laugh whenever I did something funny. I found that interesting.
King Z's hobbies are entertaining, telling jokes, celebrating and engaging in battles which tells a lot about him lol. He has very
nice arms and a sculpted chest which he likes to show off, so he does not usually cover his top half (seeeen it too many times now)
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Day 1: Welcoming Ritual
I feel a bit awkward so I don't know if I am sensing the King correctly, but now that I think about it I have an impression that he has been observing me and maybe laughing a little how I stumble on myself, but in a paternal loving way. Maybe I shouldn't use the word paternal love anymore in my future posts...
I start my ritual with lighting a red tealight and welcoming King Z to my space. Didn't feel energies shift (maybe becuse I said it in my mind and not out loud)
I begin talking to him about my day and what I would like to learn from him and what are my goals in this life. Since my hearing is not that developed (I do get short bursts here and there) so I had to rely on my sensing. After a while I feel warm overall, a definite sign of his presence.
Last part of the ritual was to mesh our energies, I felt a pressure on my torso and thighs. I was still lying on my bed and so I asked him where he was. I heard his voice clearly in my head, he answered "Between your legs" lol
It was time to sleep so I invited King Z for cuddles explaining him that I like cuddles and in my opinion it boosts our bonding. I feel pressure and warmth behind me, the bed also dipped! I have never felt my bed dip when I cuddle with my other family members
![Surprised :o](./images/smilies/icon_e_surprised.gif)
I was too embarrassed to answer
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Thank you for reading and have a nice day!
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